Winning

Let me ask you what does it mean to be winning? I believe it is all on what your goals are. If a team at the beginning of the year sets out what they want to accomplish. If they accomplish those goals they would consider themselves a winninging team even though their record may not reflect it. If they don't accomplish those goals they are a losing team. What kind of team doesn't set goals? How can they know if they are winning or losing? As a parent how do we know if we are winning or losing? Have you set up goals for your children? Do you know who you want them to be when they leave home? What are the dreams you have for them? Are they obtainable?

Once a team figures out their goals, they will then figure out how they will go about accomplishing those goals and what they will need to do or not to do to make sure they are accomplished. That can also define winning and losing. How about you, as a parent have you and your spouse sat down and figure out how you are going to accomplish those goals? What specifically will you need to do in your lives and the life of your child so at the end of the day they will be those children you want them to be? Are you winning or losing?